Is your school girl-friendly?


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Choosing the right school for your children – boys or girls – can be a bewildering process. We have a good idea of the kind of questions we want to ask about facilities, the curriculum and discipline in the school, but should we go further? Should we be asking about how “girl friendly” they are?

The main challenges for girls growing up are to develop problem-solving skills, and to assert themselves. There is also disturbing evidence about sexual harassment in senior schools from mainly male pupils. The following are some questions, which may help determine whether a school is aware of these issues:

1. What opportunity is there for my daughter to get involved in team sports where conflict and confrontation is part of the game and taking turns is not?

2. How are the subjects of maths and science tackled? Will my daughter be taught to approach these in a problem solving way?

3. How does the school ensure that girls learn the art of decision-making and the confidence in their judgement to not always look to others to decide?

4. How are boys and girls taught about the differences between them and the importance of respecting each other?

5. What procedures exist in the school for a girl who feels harassed or bullied because of her gender?

6. How do the female teachers see their position as role models for girls under their influence?

You may get some blank looks to some of these questions but at least you have raised the issues. We all know that a school cannot be all things to all people; we know as parents we have responsibilities too. If there are some gaps at least you know what they are and can find a way to tackle them away from school. Happy hunting!

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